I spent two years trying to get pregnant.
I did everything right.
And it still wasn't working.
I tracked every cycle. I went to every appointment. I changed my diet, took the supplements, tried the acupuncture.
I sat in waiting rooms and held it together and cried in parking lots and got back up and did it again.
My husband and I eventually started the adoption process. Not because we had given up on getting pregnant, but because we had given up on the idea that we had any control over it.
And then, three weeks after we genuinely, completely let go, I got pregnant.
I didn't think "how ironic."
I thought: something just happened that I don't fully understand yet. And I need to.
That question sent me on a years-long journey of study, practice, and eventually... this work.
What I came to understand is that my fertility journey wasn't just a physical experience. It was an energetic one. A subconscious one. A somatic one.
The stress I was carrying wasn't just emotional, it was stored in my body, running as a program underneath everything I did, keeping my nervous system in a state of protection rather than openness. The grief of every failed cycle accumulated in my energy field. The subconscious beliefs I held about my body, my worthiness, and my safety were shaping my biology in ways no lab result could measure.
When I let go [when I finally stopped fighting and started listening] my body responded.
Not because giving up is magic. Because something energetic and subconscious shifted when I did. And that shift is real. It is learnable. It is teachable.
That is what I built Her Fertility Support to offer.
Hi, I'm Jess,
and this is what I bring to this work:
The credentials: I am ASRM Certified, a Certified Fertility Doula, and a Reiki Master. I hold a Master's degree in Communication - which means I have spent years studying how to take complex, layered information and make it clear, accessible, and real. I have presented at the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) and the Innovine International Gynecology and Women's Health Conference. I am a volunteer with RESOLVE, the National Infertility and Family Planning Association.
The methodology: I work with three tools: energy work, subconscious healing, and somatic practice. Not as alternatives to medical care. As the layer of support that medicine was never designed to provide. The part that lives underneath the protocol. The part that changes everything when it finally gets addressed.
The lived experience: I have been where you are. I know what it feels like to perform strength in a waiting room and fall apart on the drive home. I know the specific grief of a pregnancy announcement when you're in the middle of a two-week wait. I know what it costs to carry this, and what becomes possible when you finally put it down.
I believe your body is not broken. It is communicating.
I believe infertility is not just a physical experience, it is energetic, subconscious, and deeply spiritual. And that addressing only the physical is addressing half the picture.
I believe you don't have to choose between your doctor and your soul. You need both. And you deserve both.
I believe the women who find this work are not broken women looking for a fix. They are powerful women who have been carrying something alone for too long, and who are ready, finally, to put it down and come back to themselves.
I believe that coming back to yourself is the most important work you can do on this journey. Not because it guarantees a baby [nothing can do that honestly] but because it changes the woman you are while you're in the middle of it. And that woman deserves to feel whole, grounded, and sovereign regardless of what the journey holds.
Her Fertility Support is home to:
The Fertility Frequency Collective — a $29/month on-demand membership with meditations, somatic practices, and live monthly calls organized by where you are in treatment. Everything in an app on your phone. Available at 2am when you need it most.
Private 1:1 Work with Jess — deep, private energetic and subconscious support for women actively navigating IVF, pregnancy loss, or the end of their road with infertility (you don't know what else to do), or who are ready for the most transformative level of support. Limited spots. Application required.
The Her Fertility Podcast — honest, science-backed, soul-centered conversations about the fertility journey. What it actually feels like. What actually helps. What nobody in a white coat has time to tell you.
The Fertility Support Professional Certification — for doulas, nurses, and allied health professionals who support women through infertility and want specialized training in the emotional and energetic dimensions of this work.
The Free Support Circle — a monthly live community call for women navigating infertility, run in partnership with RESOLVE. Free. Always.
Your invitation
If you've been doing this journey alone, you don't have to anymore.
If you've been doing everything right and still feel like something is missing, you're right. And it's findable.
If you're ready to stop surviving this journey and start moving through it as yourself, you're in the right place.
